Love is in the air! And in the bars!

If you travel to any city in the country and ask locals what they know about Philadelphia, they’ll probably say cheesesteaks, Rocky, the Art Museum or Independence Hall. Apart from our cultural, historic and artistic icons, most also know Philadelphia as “The City of Brotherly Love.” Less well known is that William Penn created this motto early in the city’s history to reflect a place where everyone is welcome regardless of any personal differences.

In a culture characterized by immediate gratification and short attention spans, it’s notable that this motto has been utilized so extensively throughout Philadelphia’s history. From advertising campaigns and historical sites to parks and works of art, we celebrate this tradition in a wide variety of ways. So, it’s in the spirit of “brotherly love” that I offer this week’s column. Enjoy it, and don’t forget to spread the love!

For couples making last-minute plans for Valentine’s Day, one of the most incredible spots to celebrate is XIX at the Bellevue, 200 S. Broad St. Chef Marc Plessis has created a romantic four-course menu, highlighted by oysters, scallops, sea bass, tenderloin and a chocolate-almond macaroon. Dinner is $65 a person, but it’s well worth the investment to have a Valentine’s Day that you’ll remember forever. Reservations are going fast, so XIX is excited to offer this special Valentine’s Day menu tomorrow night and this evening. Visit www.nineteenrestaurant.com for more information.

For my single readers, there’s no reason to sit at home this weekend. In fact, there’s no better time to get out, meet some new prospects and poke fun at all the Valentine’s Day outrageousness. Consider heading over to the Gershman Y, 401 S. Broad St., on Saturday for Cupid’s Burlesque Gay Bingo. Starting at 7 p.m. and for the bargain price of $20, you can enjoy an entertaining evening filled with camp humor and over-the-top personalities headlined by Miss Shady Pines. Remember, 100 percent of the proceeds benefit AIDS Fund, one of our community’s exemplary charitable organizations. Visit www.aidsfundphilly.org/gaybingo for additional details.

Getting past Feb. 14, many of us will share a different kind of “love” this President’s Day. In honor of a well-deserved three-day weekend, I’ll be hosting the grand opening of 101 at O.N.E. on Rittenhouse Square, 121 S. 19th St. As the first weekly LGBT party taking place outside the Gayborhood since Shampoo Nightclub opened in the 1990s, 101 will bring together some of the community’s most notable personalities starting at 9 p.m. every Sunday evening. The kick-off event this Sunday features $3 drinks from 9-11 p.m., music by local DJ/producer Robbie Tronco and a bartending competition, where the winner will secure a weekly job at 101. With no school or work on Monday, this is a great opportunity to get out to a different part of town and celebrate with friends. Visit www.nightlifegay.com to sign up for reduced admission before midnight or for more information.

For those planning ahead, mark your calendar for Feb. 22, as our favorite film icons gather to share their love for costars, family and colleagues at the 2009 Oscars. Many local bars will show the live broadcast (including 101, which will be hosted by and benefit the Sapphire Fund), but if you’re into something a bit more formal, consider heading to the Ethical Society of Philadelphia, 1906 Rittenhouse Square, for its annual Red Carpet Party. Doors open at 7 p.m. with the Oscar broadcast beginning promptly at 8. Guests will be treated to gourmet food, as well as complimentary wine and beer throughout the evening. Advance tickets for the event are $50, and all proceeds benefit the First Annual GLBT Artists Festival. Visit www.traversetheater.org for all the details.

That’s just about all the “love” I have to give this week, but don’t forget to check out “Gossip Tuesdays” at Bump Lounge, 1234 Locust St., from 10 p.m.-2 a.m. Though it’s typically a slow night at the bars, Bump has plenty to keep those of us who venture out early in the week entertained. Visit www.bumplounge.com for more information or to preview drink and food menus.

Thanks for checking in. ’Til next time, get offline and see what your community has to offer!

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