Leaving the gay ghetto behind
by Mark Segal
Jul 19, 2012 | 1049 views | 4 4 comments | 3 3 recommendations | email to a friend | print
A national network news show did a segment on LGBT voters in this presidential-election year last week. The piece was centralized in San Francisco. Although it was accurate, it was only accurate for San Francisco. Why is it that when a broadcast media want to point out a generality of our community, they turn to San Francisco?

May I remind the media that we LGBT people live in every other corner of America. (Hey, don’t take my word for it: Take the U.S. Census’ word.)

So what’s wrong with using San Francisco as the pivotal center of the gay world in the vision of news directors?

First and foremost, San Francisco — as San Franciscans will tell you — is not a typical city. It is among the most left-leaning cities in the nation. In my book, that’s a plus, but not for a majority of the nation. And the political base, gay or otherwise, does not represent most other people’s political views around the nation. If that were not enough, the right wing has consistently linked our community with San Francisco ... and if, like me, you note the tricks of media and political manipulation, you noted the way it was done. They used every stereotype video they could find: men in underwear, drag queens, loving same-sex couples kissing each other.

This is nothing new. In 1984, when the Democrats had their convention in San Francisco, the city’s LGBT community decided a march would be a great way to show off their community and support the LGBT delegates, of which I was one. They did something very unusual for that city, specifically mentioning attire in the flyers. At the march, I only saw one stereotyped figure: a guy dressed as a fairy on roller skates. That image was the one used that evening on the ABC evening news. One stereotype among thousands of people and they used that one.

Unfortunately a great city, San Francisco, has become that image to most Americans who either have never been to that delightful city or don’t know many LGBT people.

That report, which was meant to show LGBT political power, could have been shot or duplicated in almost any other major American city. In fact, the report meant to show how the LGBT community has gained political knowledge would have been better exemplified from another city where LGBT people are in proportion to the population, not a larger segment as in San Francisco.

To win the hearts and minds we need to gain equality, all we have to do is allow the public to know us for who we really are. In a sense, San Francisco is our national gay ghetto. Would other groups allow themselves to be portrayed by their ghettos?

Mark Segal, PGN publisher, is the nation’s most-award-winning commentator in LGBT media. He can be reached at mark@epgn.com.

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StephanieDonald
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July 22, 2012
I have never been comfortable with the term "ghetto". It brings up visions of the Jewish ghettos of World War II and in many ways, the early gay neighborhoods afforded the police ample targets for arrests and also areas where really mental bigots could find a good place to bash the brains in with baseball bats of "sissy-boys" when they were bored.

I went to San Francisco and spent quite a bit of time there. I have many friends there and if I could afford to live there I would move there in a heartbeat.

The operative word is "afford".

If you want to say that one of the most over-priced cities in the world can ever be referred to as a "ghetto" then you have some rather twisted definitions of what a ghetto is!

JordanGwendolynDavis
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July 20, 2012
San Francisco is only a nice place for PCGMs; I prob would feel unsafe there as a trans person.
Cei Bell
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July 21, 2012
I had a wonderful time in San Francisco and obviously I am not a PCGM.
DawnMunro
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July 26, 2012
Ah Jordan, where do you get that. I spent much time in San Fran and loved it. I have many trans friends there who seem to find it an empowering place to live and work.I think that you get something out of a situation in proportion to what you invest in it,. Cei is right on the money with her comment. THe only thing thaty would prevent me from relocating there is the fact that I love my adopted city( it adopted me!) and it's people with a passion.