in the spirit
Owning and embracing our difference
You know that old myth about couples who live together getting so they look alike? I say myth, because anybody who knows us knows that even after 30 years my husband and I couldn’t look any more d...
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Living on the edge, moving forward
I have come to the conclusion that it’s important for LGBT folks to live life on the edge. That might seem like extreme advice coming from a priest but, take it from me, life is supposed to be a...
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Why marriage matters
Marriage matters. That’s right, I said “marriage matters” and I mean it. No more of this nonsense about “LGBT folks don’t need a failed heterosexual institution.” Just because they so often mess i...
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Embrace your inner drag queen
Do you know your inner drag queen? You’d better get to know her. It is a spiritual imperative for gay folks, somewhat along the lines of “know yourself.” Mine is a Midwestern suburban housewife na...
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